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		<description><![CDATA[Romance readers, industry representatives, and authors of all ages and subgenres recently gathered in Kansas City for the 30th annual Romantic Times Booklovers Convention. As a first time attendee, I went in with a mind (and eyes) wide open. The Ruby Sisters who attended agree that meeting readers (and visiting with each other) was the [...]]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Romance readers, industry representatives, and authors of all ages and subgenres recently gathered in Kansas City for the 30<sup>th</sup> annual Romantic Times Booklovers Convention. As a first time attendee, I went in with a mind (and eyes) wide open. The Ruby Sisters who attended agree that meeting readers (and visiting with each other) was the best part of the convention, but if you&#8217;re looking for more details and opinions, you&#8217;ll find them below. (Beware: This is a long post, but we wanted to give you a good feel for the adventure that is RT.)</p>
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<h2><span style="color: #993300;">PROMOTIONAL OPPORTUNITIES &amp; SWAG</span></h2>
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<p>Authors and readers alike are there for a common purpose &#8211; to celebrate books. In particular, romance books. So it&#8217;s the perfect environment for promoting yourself as an author, or, as a reader, meeting your favorite author and picking up some goodies. As Addison Fox points out, &#8220;RT is wonderful because it&#8217;s a group of people who love books. Everyone there celebrates the written word and it&#8217;s just such a fun environment to be in for days on end.&#8221;</p>
<div id="attachment_22633" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 179px"><a href="http://www.rubyslipperedsisterhood.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/05/Scavenger-hunt-workshop-set-up.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-22633" alt="Some of Kim Law's swag." src="http://www.rubyslipperedsisterhood.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/05/Scavenger-hunt-workshop-set-up-169x300.jpg" width="169" height="300" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Some of Kim Law&#8217;s swag.</p></div>
<p><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Got swag?</span></strong> Boy, I hope so. If you&#8217;re an author at RT, bring a LOT and ALWAYS have some on you. This felt different from RWA, where I was hesitant to “push” things on fellow writers and usually opted for leaving items in the goody room. But at RT, even the postcards went quickly as I met readers and authors who wanted something that would help them remember my name.</p>
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<p><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Kinds of swag?</span></strong> There were a lot of pens, bookmarks, lip balms and candies. Kim Law’s beach balls were a unique and popular addition. Jeannie Lin noticed that dressing up her bookmarks (for a minimal cost) created a big hit. Says Lin: &#8220;I didn&#8217;t have very expensive stuff (other than the Ruby playing cards) but my bookmarks stood out because I wanted to make them pretty and different. Who would have thought those 1-cent red tassels would make them such a hit? I had booksellers and just random people come up to comment on how beautiful my bookmarks were.” She also recommends choosing swag that makes readers feel special and is strongly branded so they&#8217;ll remember you.</p>
<p>Elizabeth Essex describes having tiers of swag ready for any occasion. &#8220;Carry your swag with you at all times. You never know when the top reviewer from RT is going to come up to you while you are dressed as a saloon girl and ask to see your latest. Have that ARC, or PDF, or whatever hidden in your purse and ready to give out. And carry your minor swag—every time a reader asked me what I wrote, I passed out my character cards. Every time a reader said she had liked something I&#8217;ve already written, I gave her an autographed bookplate to stick in her book. And even if she had read it on an e-reader, she was happy to get that little bit of something personal.&#8221;</p>
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<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>Bring a pimp.</strong></span> Several authors brought grown sons, spouses, or a friend to help hand out items, both at book signings and in the general assemblies. Perhaps when my daughter’s of age, I&#8217;ll put her in a cute T-shirt so people will ask about her mom&#8217;s books. *wink*</p>
<div id="attachment_22644" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 280px"><a href="http://www.rubyslipperedsisterhood.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/05/Heather-and-Addison_Thursday-Ball.png"><img class=" wp-image-22644 " alt="Heather McCollum and Addison Fox mingle." src="http://www.rubyslipperedsisterhood.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/05/Heather-and-Addison_Thursday-Ball-300x293.png" width="270" height="264" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Heather McCollum and Addison Fox mingle.</p></div>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>Pimp yourself.</strong></span> Talk to people! There is no better promotional opportunity at RT than talking to the people around you—in line, on the elevator, sitting in a workshop, or wherever. Tamara Hogan says: &#8220;The most valuable part of the conference for me was networking: connecting with other writers, of course, but also chatting with book bloggers, reviewers, and librarians. A lot of these opportunities are kinda random &#8211; you never know who you’re standing in line with!” Rita Henuber also suggests reaching out to people you don’t know, asking them questions and they’ll start asking about you.</p>
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<h2><span style="color: #993300;">AUTHOR VISIBILITY </span></h2>
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<div id="attachment_22627" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 235px"><a href="http://www.rubyslipperedsisterhood.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/05/jazz_city_brunch.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-22627" alt="Tamara Hogan and Jeannie Lin at the Jazz Breakfast" src="http://www.rubyslipperedsisterhood.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/05/jazz_city_brunch-225x300.jpg" width="225" height="300" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Tamara Hogan and Jeannie Lin at the Jazz Breakfast</p></div>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>Attend workshops and events.</strong></span> In addition to swag, the workshops and reader events were ways to connect with readers. Kim Law advises authors in attendance “to expect any workshop you attend to possibly turn into a reader workshop. And that that isn’t a bad thing! Always bring freebies to the workshops, and assume you’re going to be answering reader questions.” The after-hours parties with food and drink were also big draws. One thing I did was tweet during the “Readers Know Best” workshop, which resulted in several new followers and retweets.</p>
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<div id="attachment_22628" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 179px"><a href="http://www.rubyslipperedsisterhood.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/05/Kim-and-McHottie.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-22628" alt="Kim Law poses with cover model Harvey Gaudun-Stables" src="http://www.rubyslipperedsisterhood.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/05/Kim-and-McHottie-169x300.jpg" width="169" height="300" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Kim Law poses with cover model Harvey Gaudun-Stables</p></div>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>Make friends with hot guys.</strong></span> The cover models were everywhere, appearing like co-hosts of events in addition to generating excitement among the attendees, who enjoyed a bit of eye candy. Don’t be afraid to talk to them and get your picture taken. I met some fabulous new people this way, and many authors generated a buzz by posting their pictures with cover models on Facebook.</p>
<div id="attachment_22641" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 235px"><a href="http://www.rubyslipperedsisterhood.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/05/IMG_1072-e1368719758187.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-22641" alt="Liz Bemis with Scott (one of the handsome cover models)." src="http://www.rubyslipperedsisterhood.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/05/IMG_1072-e1368719758187-225x300.jpg" width="225" height="300" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Liz Bemis with Scott (one of the handsome cover models).</p></div>
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<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>Make friends, period.</strong></span> As Elizabeth Essex recommends: &#8220;My philosophy/best advice for large conferences like RT is to tell yourself it&#8217;s just an opportunity to &#8216;make new friends,&#8217; both with readers and with authors. I had a fabulous, if exhausting time, by telling myself that RT was just one big sleep-over party, and that everywhere I went, elevators, parties, workshops and bars were just opportunities to say &#8216;Hi&#8217; to other people and ask them if they were having fun. I met so many readers that way, and I also met fellow authors and established common ground and mutual fan-girldom. At least one of those authors I met and hit it off with, gave me a shout-out on a big, national blog as a result.&#8221;</p>
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<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>Advertising options.</strong></span> Personally, I didn’t find the smaller posters that lined one specific portion of the event space as eyecatching as the window clings that were something like 7 feet tall x 4 feet wide and lined the walking areas we passed through every day. The clings on the elevator doors were captivating as well.  There was also “Promo Alley.” For the low price of $25, authors could reserve a square of space in which to place promo items for attendees to pick up. Jeannie Lin highly recommends this option. “Put up a poster with your book cover on it as well as other giveaways  like bookmarks. It&#8217;s SO worth it and the cheapest promo you&#8217;ll find at RT.”</p>
<div id="attachment_22629" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 235px"><a href="http://www.rubyslipperedsisterhood.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/05/IMG_0512.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-22629 " alt="Laura Navarre in costume at the book signing." src="http://www.rubyslipperedsisterhood.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/05/IMG_0512-225x300.jpg" width="225" height="300" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Laura Navarre in costume at the book signing.</p></div>
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<div id="attachment_22642" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 174px"><a href="http://www.rubyslipperedsisterhood.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/05/Mutton-Dressed-as-Lamb.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-22642" alt="Elizabeth Essex dresses the part for the Rosie's Gulch party." src="http://www.rubyslipperedsisterhood.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/05/Mutton-Dressed-as-Lamb-164x300.jpg" width="164" height="300" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Elizabeth Essex dresses the part for the Rosie&#8217;s Gulch party.</p></div>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>Identify yourself (and your subgenre).</strong></span> Rita Henuber suggests wearing something that indicates what you write. “If your books are about weddings wear a veil. If you write historicals wear at least the top part of a costume. Wear a pirate hat and eye patch. Have a parrot on your shoulder. I was immediately drawn to authors who did this.”</p>
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<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>Go big or go home.</strong></span> Either prepare to promote yourself as a big name readers should want to know, or spend your time at home writing the next book that will make you bigger. RT is about making a splash. Elizabeth Essex found dressing up to be fun and rewarding. &#8220;Be professional, but surrender your dignity: RT is all about dressing up and going to the parties. So I became a saloon girl, even if I was mutton dressed as lamb. I had fun, and made new friends, and those friends tracked me down at the signing and bought books. All because I had a fabulous velvet corset.&#8221; Jeannie Lin found this to be true as well. “It&#8217;s like any other &#8216;Con.&#8217; It&#8217;s about stepping out in costume and interacting with other fans and readers. I think I was easily recognized because 1) I actually really like dressing up 2) and I&#8217;m Asian and I write Asian books  3) My covers and SWAG were really easily identifiable.”</p>
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<h2><span style="color: #993300;">WHAT WOULD I CHANGE?</span></h2>
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<p>I had a blast at RT, but there were some things I would have done differently&#8230;and definitely some lessons learned.</p>
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<p><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Club RT.</span></strong> This was a scheduled time to sit and let your readers come find you. For me (a relatively new author who doesn’t have a huge following), it wasn’t that helpful, though I had fun spending that time chatting with cover models and the other authors who were there.</p>
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<p><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">FANtastic Day party.</span> </strong>Mass hysteria. Dogs and cats, living together. Okay, this event might not have been that crazy, but it was the one time I truly felt overwhelmed. Thank goodness I had Kim and Addison to glom onto. I don&#8217;t know how readers/attendees were expected to locate authors, or how authors were supposed to match up with readers who might like their books. Unless you had very visible freebies (especially free print books) to give away, readers were likely to pass you by in the crowd.</p>
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<div id="attachment_22630" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://www.rubyslipperedsisterhood.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/05/Heather-book-signing.jpeg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-22630" alt="Heather McCollum at Saturday's Book Fair" src="http://www.rubyslipperedsisterhood.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/05/Heather-book-signing-300x225.jpeg" width="300" height="225" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Heather McCollum at Saturday&#8217;s Book Fair</p></div>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>E-Book EXPO and Giant Book Fair.</strong></span> First, I was thrilled to be part of the E-book EXPO on Thursday afternoon. But, well, it was scheduled from 4-6 p.m. on a work day in the middle of a week…and it snowed. Sideways. I certainly don’t blame RT for the snow, and participating in the event was a lot of fun, but when compared to the BIG print book fair on Saturday? There were, maybe, a fourth of the attendees (and that’s probably being generous). Saturday was the granddaddy of events for readers. People could buy a day pass just for that. Readers turned out in droves.</p>
<p>But Jeannie Lin, who participated in both signings, had a different experience. “Surprisingly, I think I had more people approach me at the ebook expo than at the Giant Bookfair. Maybe it was because the expectation at the ebook Expo was you were browsing and would buy later? Or maybe just because it was first on Thursday and the Giant Bookfair was Saturday.”</p>
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<div id="attachment_22631" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://www.rubyslipperedsisterhood.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/05/Kim-at-the-giant-book-fair.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-22631" alt="Kim Law at Saturday's Book Fair." src="http://www.rubyslipperedsisterhood.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/05/Kim-at-the-giant-book-fair-300x169.jpg" width="300" height="169" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Kim Law at Saturday&#8217;s Book Fair.</p></div>
<p><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">The signings.</span></strong> The biggest thing I learned from my E-book EXPO signing is how to better promote myself in the crowd. People don’t know my name, but when I wrote my subgenre under my name on my sign, more people stopped to talk about that with me, as we bonded discussing the books we loved. Conversation usually led to them taking a postcard and swag items, so maybe they’ll look me up again. Using a stand-up poster with an eye-catching cover also had a lot of people stopping to say hello. Basically, having a conversation starter was key to luring people to the table. Also, as I learned from the author next to me, bringing a pashmina or some other cloth to add color or background (other than the bright white that lined the tables) made my station more appealing. Next time, I&#8217;ll remember to bring a Sharpie for those hard-to-sign items. I also wrote “Take One” on my sign to encourage people to pick up swag, and it worked. Readers are shy and can be elusive unless you use bait.</p>
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<p>I thought Jeannie Lin had a great take on what measures “success” at a signing, and how the RT bookfair is useful, even if you don’t sell a pile of books. “RT is not a bookselling event &#8211; There are so many book giveaways that readers aren&#8217;t usually there to buy from authors they don&#8217;t know. Expect to give away a lot of books. But that&#8217;s a good thing. Imagine when you blog how hard it is to get readers to come by and even comment to get a book? And then you have to pay postage to ship it to them. Here, readers and bloggers are clamoring for books.”</p>
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<p><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Sponsor something.</span></strong> At my next RT, I’d try to sponsor the bags, a party, a panel, or invest in advertising via the window clings. Or host a reader event. As Jeannie Lin, a second-time RT attendee this year, learned, “I did panels that were totally brainy and heavy. Forget that. For next year, I&#8217;m only going to do fun reader panels with prizes and games and feather boas.” <a href="http://www.rtconvention.com/content/submit-workshop-proposal-2014-rt-booklovers-convention" target="_blank">RT 2014 is already accepting proposals</a>.</p>
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<div id="attachment_22634" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://www.rubyslipperedsisterhood.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/05/70s-party-e1368685289144.jpeg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-22634" alt="Laura Navarre and Heather McCollum at the Disco Party." src="http://www.rubyslipperedsisterhood.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/05/70s-party-e1368685289144-300x225.jpeg" width="300" height="225" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Laura Navarre and Heather McCollum at the Disco Party.</p></div>
<p><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Participate more.</span></strong> As a newbie, I confess I was a bit intimidated by some of the evening events, especially where costumes were encouraged. I wish I’d gone to more of them, especially the publisher-sponsored ones. But as a Carina author, I did participate in their cocktail party on the last night, which allowed readers to enter a drawing for an iPad2 (which turned out to be two iPad2’s!). To enter, they mingled with authors, searching for the one who wrote the book that matched a blurb in their hands. It was a great way to mix authors and readers as well as get them intrigued about books from the blurbs. I&#8217;d definitely do something like that again. And I admired Entangled’s author-hunt scavenger hunt, and how it took place over days and days, probably putting those authors&#8217; names and covers in front of readers at least a dozen times over the course of the convention.</p>
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<h2><span style="color: #993300;">WRITER VS. READER CONS</span></h2>
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<p>I’m coming from only having attended national RWA and regional RWA conferences – i.e., writer-focused conferences. Having said that, the workshops at RT were okay, but some lacked a professional polish that RWA presenters and award ceremonies are known for.</p>
<p>Tamara Hogan suggests if you’re a writer looking for workshops with a writing/craft focus, that RWA might better suit your needs. Workshops at RT, even the craft ones, still had a “fan” slant. However, though she was able to connect with her readers, she wondered what the ratio of writers to readers was this year. “It seemed to me there were a LOT more writers there than there were the last time I attended, with every single one of us there to promote our work. Whether this is a positive thing or a negative thing for reader attendees, I have no idea.”</p>
<p>Still, there was an entire workshop track dedicated to self-publishing, including a couple of workshops presented by Mark Coker from Smashwords. And in a thriller panel I attended, Bob Mayer and other authors explained what an <a title="Espresso Book Printing Machine" href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q946sfGLxm4" target="_blank">“espresso machine”</a> was. I’d never heard of this tool for printing books from digital files. Sounds like the future of publishing to me!</p>
<p>Jeannie Lin, a second-time RT attendee this year, has observed an “RT culture,” saying that there are readers who’ve approached her saying they remember her from the past RT, or have read her books because they picked one up at the event. “There are also super-readers who scan the authors attending list and bring all the books on their bookshelves that match up. I got a couple of those wanting autographs of my backlist books that they had bought from Walmart or B&amp;N. I&#8217;m not a big name famous author, I really believe these readers do it for ALL the authors they read. Don&#8217;t you love that there are readers like that?”</p>
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<div id="attachment_22640" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://www.rubyslipperedsisterhood.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/05/Rubies-chowing-down-2.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-22640 " alt="Ruby Dinner! From front right to front left: Heather McCollum, Laura Navarre, Rita Henuber, Anne Marie Becker, Addison Fox, Liz Bemis, Jeannie Lin, Tamara Hogan, Sara Ramsey (taking the picture is Kim Law)." src="http://www.rubyslipperedsisterhood.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/05/Rubies-chowing-down-2-300x169.jpg" width="300" height="169" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Ruby Dinner! From front right to front left: Heather McCollum, Laura Navarre, Rita Henuber, Anne Marie Becker, Addison Fox, Liz Bemis, Jeannie Lin, Tamara Hogan, Sara Ramsey (taking the picture is Kim Law).</p></div>
<p>Like with any conference, stamina is the name of the game. Rita Henuber recommends eating a good breakfast every morning. Jeannie Lin reminds authors to bring a cup of coffee or bottle of water to the book signings. Addison Fox recommends finding time for a quick nap. Elizabeth Essex balances it all: &#8220;Lather (go to the bar), rinse (short time alone in room), repeat!&#8221;</p>
<p>Hope to see you in May 2014 in New Orleans at the next Romantic Times Booklovers Convention!</p>
<p><b><i>Have you been to RT, as a reader or a writer, or both? Have you attended other reader cons? What were your experiences, and do you have any tips or tidbits to share?</i></b></p>
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		<dc:creator>Anne Marie Becker</dc:creator>
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				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I don&#8217;t know about you, but I’m still on a high from all the cyber-celebrating yesterday. Thank you to everyone who dropped by the blog to share in the excitement! (And for those of you who were hoping for a call yesterday but didn&#8217;t get one, don&#8217;t fret! That call will come someday – even if it&#8217;s in a totally different form. Persistence and perseverance is key. Join the Rubies tomorrow for our &#8220;So You Didn&#8217;t Get the Call&#8221; post and some great prizes.)</p>
<p><a href="http://www.rubyslipperedsisterhood.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/03/MP900427617.jpg"><img class="alignleft  wp-image-21773" alt="Cork Shot Out From a Bottle of Champagne" src="http://www.rubyslipperedsisterhood.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/03/MP900427617-300x300.jpg" width="240" height="240" /></a>Today, I&#8217;m passing around the cyber-bubbly and calorie-free chocolate because the Ruby-Slippered Sisterhood would like to extend a very warm welcome (and cyber hugs) to the newly inducted class of 2013 – congratulations to those of you who are new (or re-newed!) <a title="2013 Finalists" href="http://www.rwa.org/p/bl/et/blogid=20&amp;blogaid=364" target="_blank">Golden Heart® or RITA® finalists</a>! (If you haven&#8217;t already joined your 2013 sisters, here&#8217;s the link to <a title="2013 Loop" href="http://groups.yahoo.com/group/2013GHFinalists" target="_blank">join their loop</a>.)</p>
<p>We hope you’ll introduce yourselves in the comments below, and to entice you to share your call stories, and a little about yourselves, we’ve had a very generous offer from a previous Golden Heart winner, Ruth Kaufman. She has donated her time and energy to help FIVE lucky finalists who comment below prepare their acceptance speeches. It’s always good to be ready! In fact, one of the reasons Ruth made this generous offer is because, when she was a finalist, she didn&#8217;t think she would win and had nothing prepared. Don&#8217;t be caught in the same situation. If you&#8217;d like to be entered in this drawing, please indicate it in your comment by including: PLEASE CONSIDER ME FOR THE DRAWING. We&#8217;ll be selecting five random winners who will each receive a 30-minute Facetime or Skype consultation session with Ruth. (Please see her bio below.)</p>
<p>The Rubies are thrilled to share in your excitement, and look forward to hearing where this milestone leads you next in your journey. Perhaps you&#8217;ll consider GUEST BLOGGING with the Rubies in the coming months, so we can get to know you even better. We&#8217;ll be contacting your new loop in the coming weeks with more information.<a href="http://www.rubyslipperedsisterhood.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/03/MP900409425.jpg"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-21776" alt="Colorful Fireworks" src="http://www.rubyslipperedsisterhood.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/03/MP900409425-300x199.jpg" width="300" height="199" /></a></p>
<p><strong><em>Please let us know a little more about you &#8211; including your call story, if you&#8217;re willing to share. Ruby Sisters, members of other Golden Heart classes, and well-wishers of every kind will be stopping by throughout the day to offer congratulations and advice. You deserve it!</em></strong></p>
<p><strong>Coming tomorrow</strong> on the Ruby Sisterhood&#8230;a day of camaraderie and consolation for those of us who didn&#8217;t get the call yesterday&#8230;and many more fabulous prizes guaranteed to take the sting out of disappointment. Come join us!</p>
<p>ABOUT RUTH KAUFMAN:</p>
<p>2011 Golden Heart® winner Ruth Kaufman‘s true, short story, &#8220;The Scrinch,&#8221; is in St. Martin&#8217;s anthology <i>The Spirit of Christmas</i>. A medieval was runner up in RT Book Reviews’ national American Title II contest. An attorney with a Master’s in Radio/TV, Ruth is a Chicago on-camera and voiceover talent, freelance writer and editor and workshop presenter. Learn more at <a href="http://www.ruthkaufman.com/" target="_blank">www.ruthkaufman.com</a> and <a href="http://www.ruthtalks.com/" target="_blank">www.ruthtalks.com</a>.</p>
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		<title>Mind Games</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 13 Mar 2013 04:01:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Anne Marie Becker</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[As a suspense author, I enjoy a mind game now and then, and have free rein to use them with my villains and even heroes and heroines. But today, I&#8217;m talking about how I use mind games on myself—as a tool to get motivated in my writing. &#160; The “I Don’t Wanna” Complex &#160; Hey, [...]]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.rubyslipperedsisterhood.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/03/MP900289307.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-21650 alignleft" alt="Chess Pic" src="http://www.rubyslipperedsisterhood.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/03/MP900289307-230x300.jpg" width="230" height="300" /></a>As a suspense author, I enjoy a mind game now and then, and have free rein to use them with my villains and even heroes and heroines. But today, I&#8217;m talking about how I use mind games on myself—as a tool to get motivated in my writing.</p>
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<p><strong><em>The “I Don’t Wanna” Complex</em></strong></p>
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<p>Hey, look! It’s already Wednesday. Hump day. The day of the week when I assess how the week is going. Have I encountered challenges that kept me from writing? Are these challenges in my head or external? If they’re in my head, how do I hope to overcome them to turn my week around and make it productive? Or, if I have been productive, how do I keep that momentum going instead of giving in to the temptation to relax and take a break (which frequently leads to difficulty getting back into the writing routine later)?</p>
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<p>With spring around the corner, I find myself staring out the window more often, wanting to play instead of work. And I find it easier to say, “I can make up this gap in my word count goal later tonight, after the kids are in bed”&#8230; When I’m frequently too tired to write and then tell myself, I’ll do it tomorrow. It’s too easy to make excuses to play when I don’t feel like working.</p>
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<p><strong><em>Getting Over Myself</em></strong></p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>So how do I get myself (my procrastination and other road blocks) out of the way and get things DONE?</p>
<p><em>Mind games.</em></p>
<p>I hear Gollum&#8217;s voice saying, “she&#8217;s tricksy,” but I wear the badge with pride because I get things done. Whatever it takes, right?</p>
<p>If I&#8217;m stalled out, energy-wise, I give myself permission to use 30 minutes on something non-writing (with the caveat that I will then sit down and produce words). I trick myself into believing I&#8217;m giving in to my temptation to play, but it actually leads to work. Here are some methods I employ:</p>
<ol>
<li><strong>Exercise.</strong> Taking a walk outdoors gets the blood pumping to all areas of the body &#8211; including the brain. I’ll admit to occasionally dancing around my house with upbeat music playing on Pandora, frequently tuned to the “Pink!” station.</li>
<li><strong>Brain teasers.</strong> Yes, more mind games&#8230;of a sort. Engaging in a puzzle (crosswords, Scrabble, and the like), as long as I limit the time I spend, can help open my mind to the potential of doing work that day. It also gets me thinking about words. (DANGER: Beware the time suck! Set a timer for 20 minutes!)</li>
<li><strong>Attend writer’s meetings, or read or write a blog post on craft.</strong> If a writer’s meeting isn’t in the immediate future, I’ll set up a writing sprint online or a one-on-one writing session with a friend who lives in town. Then I&#8217;ve got a commitment to keep. (Spending $5 on a coffee drink often encourages me I have to get some major work done to justify the cost!)</li>
<li><strong>Read the latest RWR or other craft magazine.</strong> Seeing what other writers are doing often encourages me to get my head back in the game.</li>
<li><strong>Read a book!</strong> Sometimes this gets me in the mood to write my own. And sometimes reading about other characters makes my own jealous, and they start nitpicking at me until I get back to their story.</li>
<li><strong>Cattle prod?</strong> No, I&#8217;m not serious…but, then again, having a timer works in a similar way. If I’m having trouble focusing, I’ll give myself permission to do something else for a few minutes, and set the timer on my iPhone to “prod” me to get back to work.</li>
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<p>But what about <em>writing</em>? Once my brain is willing (or sometimes when it is still pouting in the corner but I <em>need</em> it to be willing), there are specific things I do to help me get back into the actual writing part of my day.</p>
<ol>
<li><strong>Warm-up exercises.</strong> Free-writing for five minutes, catching up on emails, or jotting down notes for future scenes often helps me get my fingers warmed up. I also have a deck of idea cards for writers with prompts designed to get your brain thinking…things like “pick a scene and make your character do the opposite of what you&#8217;ve already written” or “tell the scene from another character’s POV.&#8221;</li>
<li><strong>Re-reading the last scene or two</strong>. This is almost a “must” for me to get my head back in the game. Besides, rereading helps me regain the energy of the moment I was in when I last wrote. I’ll also go back and reread the last scene <em>in that character’s</em> POV, so that I know what emotional and physical state I left her/him in and can continue from there. (DANGER: I often find myself wanting to edit what I wrote – which is okay if that’s my goal for the day. But if my goal is forward progress, generating more words, I have to stuff my inner critic into its box.)</li>
<li><strong>Playing what-if with the scene.</strong> I do this with troublesome scenes, when I can’t see where the story is going. I once read/heard somewhere that when brainstorming you should list as many possibilities as you can. Throw out the first five or so because they’re often the predictable ones. Go further down your list for an exciting option.</li>
<li><strong>The old switcheroo.</strong> Changing my location (where I write) or medium (what I’m working on – for instance, using pen and notepad versus a computer) sometimes gets the ideas flowing. I’ve always wanted to try a hand-held voice recorder &#8211; I think that would come in handy in these circumstances.</li>
<li><strong>Follow the energy.</strong> This is probably one of the biggest lessons I’ve learned. Some days, I’m just not feeling it. I try to go where the energy is flowing that day &#8211; to work follow my brain&#8217;s natural path instead of going against the flow. This might mean writing a different scene than you&#8217;d planned to work on that day, or working on the synopsis or query letter instead of the manuscript. Whatever feels like forward progress is good. And stepping back to look at the global picture often helps me get back into the scene I need to write, and I&#8217;ll end up getting even more done than I’d intended. (Tricksy!)</li>
<li><strong>Set a timer or a low word count goal.</strong> Taking off a bite-sized chunk of the daily goal usually gets the ball rolling and tricks me into believing I am productive. Especially when, once my brain gets jump-started, my fingers can’t fly across the keyboard fast enough.</li>
<li><strong>Reward yourself!</strong> Peanut M&amp;Ms work for me. I get five for every twenty minutes I spend at the keyboard. Or a bonus five if I finish a scene. If I&#8217;m trying to limit calories, I&#8217;ll let myself play online for a few minutes, or watch a segment (until the next commercial break) of <em>The Followers</em> or another favorite show. Choose whatever works for you (and fits your diet or budget)…small rewards can be just as helpful as large ones (which I reserve for finishing a round of edits or finishing a manuscript).</li>
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<p>These are just a few of the mind games I play to make myself believe I&#8217;m playing when I&#8217;m really getting down to work&#8230;we won&#8217;t even go into the tricks I play on my characters once I&#8217;m in the scene and the words start flowing. (*insert maniacal laughter here*)</p>
<p><b><i>How about you? Do you have ways you trick yourself into being productive? What mind games do you employ when your brain wants to play instead of work?</i></b></p>
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<address><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Only-Fear-The-Mindhunters-ebook/dp/B005GFAYXC/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1363066999&amp;sr=8-2&amp;keywords=Only+Fear"><img class=" wp-image-21653 alignright" alt="Only Fear-cover" src="http://www.rubyslipperedsisterhood.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/03/Only-Fear-cover-194x300.jpg" width="122" height="189" /></a>Anne Marie is an award-winning author of romantic suspense and publishes her Mindhunters series through Carina Press and Harlequin. Always fascinated by people—inside and out—she earned degrees in Biology, Chemistry, Psychology, and Counseling before becoming a fiction writer. As a stay-at-home mom of three young children, her passion for understanding the human race is now satisfied by her roles as mother, wife, daughter, sister, and writer.  </address>
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<address>She writes to reclaim her sanity.</address>
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<address>You can find out more about Anne Marie at  <a href="http://www.annemariebecker.com/">www.AnneMarieBecker.com</a>.</address>
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		<title>Winter Writing Festival: Check-In #5</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 14 Feb 2013 04:01:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Anne Marie Becker</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The Third Annual Ruby Slippered Sisterhood Winter Writing Festival is coming to the end of its fifth week. It’s hard to believe we’re on Day 36 of the festival – people have been doing an outstanding job meeting their goals and it’s time to celebrate! Today we complete our 5th full week, and it’s time [...]]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h2>The Third Annual Ruby Slippered Sisterhood Winter Writing Festival is coming to the end of its fifth week. It’s hard to believe we’re on Day 36 of the festival – people have been doing an outstanding job meeting their goals and it’s time to celebrate!<img title="More..." alt="" src="http://www.rubyslipperedsisterhood.com/wp-includes/js/tinymce/plugins/wordpress/img/trans.gif" /></h2>
<h2>Today we complete our 5th full week, and it’s time to officially check in!</h2>
<p>If you’re reading this on the Festival website (the blue site), jump on over to the regular Ruby Slippered Sisterhood blog (the ruby-colored site, at <a href="http://rubyslipperedsisterhood.com/">rubyslipperedsisterhood.com</a>) and leave a quick comment about your experience with the Festival and your progress so far.</p>
<p>A few odds -n- ends before we get to the goodies.</p>
<h3>1.  THE WWF CHAT ROOM – COME JOIN US!</h3>
<p>Our Chat Room <a href="http://www.rsswwf.com/ichat/">http://www.rsswwf.com/ichat/</a>  is open over at the <a href="http://rsswwf.com/">rsswwf.com</a> site. You can check the times that are posted on the RSSWWF site (blue site) for your sprint hostesses and come join us.</p>
<p>If you haven’t had a chance to drop in yet or if you’re not sure how it all works, Kim Law put together a great post on how the sprints work <a href="http://www.rubyslipperedsisterhood.com/tba-18/">right here</a>.</p>
<h3>2. If you’ve made your goals so far, you should be at 36 POINTS! (The day one sign up got you a bonus point for the first day!) Don’t forget, you can always make up points so if you’ve fallen behind, just work on catching up over the next few weeks. All writing is good writing!</h3>
<p><strong>If you made your goals, please add a line in your comment in all caps saying I MADE MY GOAL!!! You will hear us cheering loudly!!!</strong></p>
<p>If you’ve fallen a bit behind, don’t worry, just jump right back on and keep going!</p>
<p><strong>3. There’s still time to download your</strong> Festival Participant Badge right here:</p>
<p>If you’d like to post the badge to your personal site, you can grab it here.  Just right-click on the badge below, choose “SAVE IMAGE AS” and save it to your computer. You can then upload it to your own website as you please!</p>
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<h3><strong>AND NOW FOR THIS WEEK’S SWAG:</strong></h3>
<p>Anyone who checks in at the Ruby blog today will be entered in a random drawing to win one of the following prizes – don’t miss out!:</p>
<ul>
<li>Synopsis critique (Amanda Brice)</li>
<li><em>A Breath of Scandal</em> (print) by Elizabeth Essex</li>
<li><em>Edge of Light</em> and 2-book set of Remnants series (eBook) by Cynthia Justlin: <em>Her own Best Enemy</em> and <em>Intrusion</em></li>
<li>Ruby-slipper ring holder (Gwynlyn MacKenzie)</li>
<li>$20 Amazon Card (Diana Layne)</li>
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<h2>So come join us and let us know how you’re doing! How did Week #5 go? Did you make your goals?</h2>
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		<title>Talking Romantic Suspense: Writing a Series</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 05 Dec 2012 04:01:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Anne Marie Becker</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[&#160; Several years ago, when I realized I wanted to make writing a career, “trilogy” was the buzz word. Series were sought-after by publishers because they could rapidly build an author’s name, as well as their backlist. It seemed a logical business move to structure the stories in my head into a series—especially since I’d [...]]]></description>
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<p>Several years ago, when I realized I wanted to make writing a career, “trilogy” was the buzz word. Series were sought-after by publishers because they could rapidly build an author’s name, as well as their backlist. It seemed a logical business move to structure the stories in my head into a series—especially since I’d always enjoyed reading series by other authors, falling in love with their characters and looking forward to “seeing” them again like old friends. But how do you create a series readers will become hooked on?</p>
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<h3><a href="http://www.rubyslipperedsisterhood.com/talking-romantic-suspense-3/dreamstimefree_122038/" rel="attachment wp-att-20575"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-20575" title="dreamstimefree_122038" src="http://www.rubyslipperedsisterhood.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/12/dreamstimefree_122038-300x199.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="199" /></a><strong>A TIE-IN</strong></h3>
<p>A series, by definition, contains items that are related. Therefore, a series of books has someone or something that ties it together.</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;">A Person</span></p>
<p>For instance, J.D. Robb’s “In Death” books and Janet Evanovich’s Stephanie Plum series center around a character (in these cases, the heroine) who is the main character in each book. The romantic elements come from that character’s romantic life, and show the growth of the character over a broader time spectrum.</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;">A Place or Thing</span></p>
<p>On the other hand, one can center a series around an idea, a family, an agency, or some other entity separate from the characters. In romance, this typically involves the wrapping up of a different couple’s love story in each book. Suzanne Brockmann has several romantic duos in each book of her Troubleshooters series, but one is always wrapped up at the end of each book, and they all center around her Troubleshooters agency.</p>
<p>Because I enjoy books that can stand alone and have a romantic conflict all wrapped up nice and neat by the end of the book, I chose the second route and created an agency named SSAM (The Society of the Study of the Aberrant Mind) that bound my books together. This way, I have the freedom to pick and choose heroes and heroines with different skillsets, different reasons to be tied to SSAM, and different personalities for each book. I didn’t want to be tied to the same characters for an extended time period, though many of my heroes and heroines are secondary characters in past and future books. I like that sense that each book is a family reunion of sorts, where readers can catch up with their favorite characters.</p>
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<h3><strong>SERIES GROWTH</strong></h3>
<p>Just like with individual books, there should be change and maturation over the course of the series. If your series is focused on a primary character, each book should display some growth in that character, with a more extensive growth arc over the series of books. For the second type of tie-in… well, if characters can grow, then agencies, towns, and families can, too. In this case, the central tie-in element is, in fact, a character in many ways.</p>
<p>The growth arc I created for the Mindhunters series is closely tied to the founder of SSAM – Damian Manchester, who has a point-of-view as a secondary character in each book. His past pain, current struggles, and ultimate resolution are revealed gradually, with a piece of the puzzle in each book, until the end book, in which I hope to give him peace at last.</p>
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<h3><strong>MARKETING</strong></h3>
<p>Each book should be able to stand on its own. Readers tend to get irritated when they realize they’ve purchased a book, but will have to go purchase other past or future books to get the rest of the story. The nice thing about a series, though, is that promoting one book often impacts the others.  More bang for your advertising buck.</p>
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<h3><strong>CHALLENGES</strong></h3>
<ul>
<li>Keeping it straight. As the series continues, it can be difficult for an author to keep all the facts, character traits, family relationships, and events in line with previous books. See Tamara Hogan&#8217;s earlier post about <a href="http://www.rubyslipperedsisterhood.com/writing-a-series/" target="_blank">creating a series bible</a>.</li>
<li>Keeping it fresh. The author should create new challenges in each book, but also tie them into previous and future books without being too repetitive.</li>
<li>Making each book stand alone. Start each book as if the reader hasn’t read the others, and doesn&#8217;t need to. This includes “sprinkling” in the series backstory as if it was character backstory. You don’t want the reader to think they’ve missed some key piece of the series, but you don&#8217;t want to spend page after tedious page giving the history of the series either.</li>
<li>Selling early books. I&#8217;ve been told that some readers wait until the entire series is available before buying any of them. This can, of course, affect your sales, but if it&#8217;s true, it should result in a nice jump in royalties when the final book is released.</li>
<li>Keeping the tension high. Maintaining that sense of the “ticking clock” and imminent danger is necessary for romantic suspense, but readers expect resolution, too. Keeping both over a series of books can be a unique challenge.</li>
<li>If you write the same-main-character type of series (<em>a la</em> Stephanie Plum, Eve Dallas, or Harry Potter), one challenge is showing character growth over the course of each book, and then over the course of the series.</li>
</ul>
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<h3><strong>ADVANTAGES</strong></h3>
<ul>
<li>Publishers like series. In fact, with my digital-first publisher (Carina Press), series are sometimes more likely to be put into print form (in this case, by the parent company, Harlequin). I&#8217;ve seen this happen with my Mindhunters books.</li>
<li>Readers like series. At least, this reader does. I like to get invested in the characters I read about, and see multiple aspects of their lives. It&#8217;s almost as if they&#8217;re part of a family. And if they’re in several books, even if they&#8217;re not always the main characters, I get a multifaceted, 3-D picture of them.</li>
<li>Authors like series. Writing a series gives you a chance to really delve deep into plot and character development, and you don’t have to do character development from scratch if the character has already appeared in a previous book, but you have more space to flesh them out, too.</li>
<li>As mentioned above, promotion of one book is promotion of all of the books.</li>
</ul>
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<p><strong><em>What is your favorite series (from any genre &#8211; romantic suspense or otherwise)? What common denominator linked the stories within that series? When you read, do you prefer books that are part of a series?</em></strong></p>
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<p>Anne Marie Becker has always been fascinated with people and how they “work”—inside and out—which led to degrees in Biology, Psychology, and Counseling.  Now, her roles as wife, mother, writer, and domestic goddess satisfy her curiosity.  She explores the dark side of criminal behavior and the saving powers of love and hope through her Mindhunters series. For more about Anne Marie and where to connect with her, please visit her at <a href="http://www.annemariebecker.com/Anne_Marie_Becker,_Author/Home.html" target="_blank">www.AnneMarieBecker.com</a>.<strong></strong></p>
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		<title>Project Ruby Push: Follow Up</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 02 Nov 2012 04:01:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Anne Marie Becker</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[It’s been six weeks since we saw each other last. (Where did the time go?) If you’ll recall, I gave you a little push in the form of a writing challenge waaaay back on September 19th, hoping it would generate a massive wave of productivity. Today is the conclusion of that challenge, and it&#8217;s time [...]]]></description>
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<p>It’s been six weeks since we saw each other last. (Where did the time go?) If you’ll recall, I gave you a little push in the form of a writing challenge waaaay back on <a title="Project: Ruby Push" href="http://www.rubyslipperedsisterhood.com/tba-32/" target="_blank">September 19<sup>th</sup></a>, hoping it would generate a massive wave of productivity. Today is the conclusion of that challenge, and it&#8217;s time to check in. Drumroll, please&#8230;</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>My “SMART” (Specific, Measurable, Attainable, Realistic, Timely) goal:</strong></span> Complete 60,000 words of a new project by October 31<sup>st</sup>.</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>My reality:</strong></span> 61,707 words as of 10/31.</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>Analysis:</strong></span> Success!</p>
<p>There were struggles, and some very difficult days in which focus was elusive. At least five days, kids were home from school, sick and needing Mommy. Some days, I hit a roadblock in my plot that I struggled to get past. And some days I just felt like procrastinating. There were a couple days when I was traveling or family was visiting, and it made it that much harder to jump back into writing.</p>
<p>Whenever I felt like I wanted to slack off or let things slide, I remembered you were holding me accountable. (Um,…thanks? &lt;grin&gt;)</p>
<p>I also found that having a plan helped. I stuck to my decision to spend the first several days plotting. Using Hope Ramsay’s recent post <a href="http://www.rubyslipperedsisterhood.com/using-scrivener-for-plotting/" target="_blank">&#8220;Using Scrivener for Plotting,&#8221;</a> I was able to organize my thoughts and hit the ground running on 9/24. I found that, when I could, using the evenings to plot and organize the next day’s scenes helped.</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>What did I learn?</strong> </span>That I can do it! But I also learned that my maximum of 5,000 words is not a pace I would care to keep up day in and day out, and 3,000 is a more comfortable goal. Some days I wrote 300-500 words and that was quite the achievement. Being flexible was oh-so-important on days when I felt like one more apple on my cart would topple the whole thing. Most of all, I learned to go easy on myself when I don’t make it. Some days are highly productive, some aren’t. But enjoying life is important to keeping my creative juices flowing, too.</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>What’s Next?</strong></span> I’ve decided to set this project aside for a few weeks before I go back and finish the last third of it. I simply need a mental break from it. Besides, while I wanted to start a new series, my <a href="http://www.annemariebecker.com/Anne_Marie_Becker,_Author/Books.html" target="_blank">Mindhunters series</a> is calling to me, too. With <a href="http://nanowrimo.org" target="_blank">National Novel Writing Month</a> starting up yesterday, I wanted to begin with a brand new project that will (hopefully) rejuvenate me. Perfect timing. (I’m “Anne Marie B” on NaNo&#8217;s site by the way, if anybody wants to buddy-up.)</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>The best part of the Ruby Push:</strong></span> I am a writer who seems to make the biggest strides in the editing stage. Having something other than a blank page to work with will help me out so much.</p>
<p><strong><em>If you missed the 9/19 post, let me know your goals for NaNo, or simply for the rest of 2012. If you posted goals on <a href="http://www.rubyslipperedsisterhood.com/tba-32/" target="_blank">September 19<sup>th</sup></a> in the Comments section, let me know how they turned out (for better or worse or a totally different direction). If you met your goals and let me know in the Comments below by Sunday, November 4<sup>th</sup> at midnight Eastern time, you’ll be entered in a random drawing for two $10 Amazon gift cards.</em></strong></p>
<p>Keep focused and GOOD LUCK to you all as you immerse yourself in the holidays, or NaNo, or whatever new challenge awaits you. Don’t forget the Rubies’ Winter Writing Festival starts in January!</p>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 19 Sep 2012 04:01:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Anne Marie Becker</dc:creator>
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<p>I don’t know about you, but it seems this year has been flying by at a record pace. The change in weather, the return of the kids to school, and the looming end of the year have me re-evaluating what time I have left, and what my goals were waaaay back in January. It’s the final countdown, and I’m here to push myself, and you. (You didn’t think I was going to do this alone, did you?)</p>
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<p>Why a push? A shove is kind of rude. And this isn’t a kindly nudge, it’s a “wake up, there are only three months left until 2013!” full-on push. NaNoWriMo isn’t until November 1<sup>st</sup>, and the Ruby Winter Writing Festival seems a long way from now, so I say we take charge of our goals NOW. Let’s do this. (Do you see me putting my eye-of-the-tiger face on? My pom-poms are waiting beside me, ready to cheer you on, too.)</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>First, let’s set some <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">goals</span></strong>. Goals should be “SMART.”</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<ul>
<li>S = Specific</li>
<li>M = Measurable</li>
<li>A = Attainable</li>
<li>R = Realistic</li>
<li>T = Timely</li>
</ul>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>I’ll give you my current goals as an example. Specifically, over the next six weeks (I’ve given myself a November 2<sup>nd</sup> deadline) I’m planning to write 60,000 words of a new manuscript. (Secretly, I&#8217;m hoping to achieve a full, 90,000-word rough draft of a novel, but I&#8217;m a little afraid that&#8217;s not within the realm of &#8220;realistic&#8221; for me. I&#8217;m still pushing for it, though.) I will be able to measure my progress by word count. The goal is attainable and realistic, because I know I’ve produced 10,000 words (occasionally more) in a week, and my schedule for the next few weeks is dedicated to writing.</p>
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<p>Now that I know what I want to achieve, it’s time for a <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">plan</span></strong>.</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<ul>
<li>Visualize it, and believe it can happen. (And it CAN happen, because you’ve set realistic goals, right? Right. So, no excuses.) This week, I&#8217;ve been working on plotting out a detailed outline of my manuscript, so that I&#8217;m already getting to know my characters and plot and I can jump into writing with both feet.</li>
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<ul>
<li>Make writing a priority. I will sacrifice other things – reading, TV time, and—if I must—housework (oh, darn), in order to make my word count each day.</li>
</ul>
<ul>
<li>Look ahead. I&#8217;ve taken a look at my planner/calendar and know what days will be tough to focus on writing (for various reasons). I&#8217;m planning to accommodate for those by writing more on the days my schedule is lighter. (See &#8220;Be flexible&#8230;&#8221;)</li>
</ul>
<ul>
<li>Be flexible. I plan to build a buffer into my word goals so I can take a sick day if needed, and take a day off every now and then. Some days, when my obligations are fewer, I plan to write 3,000 words. Others, such as weekends when the family is around, I plan closer to 1,000 words. If I miss a day&#8217;s goals, I will not be discouraged. I will be doing the best I can, and that&#8217;s enough. (But I&#8217;ll still push myself, because creating a new manuscript in 6 weeks would be AWESOME.)</li>
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<ul>
<li>Reward hard work. I believe in celebrating small successes as well as the larger goals. A special meal with hubby or a glass of wine after a particularly grueling day. A 30-minute nap. A walk around the block in the sunshine. Buying a new book. Whatever will rejuvenate you and get you away from the computer for a bit—make a plan to include that in your routine when you meet your goals, at least something each week. (And plan an extra-special reward for November 2nd!)</li>
</ul>
<ul>
<li>Use others—in a nice way, of course, which is why you’re here. You’re going to hold me accountable, and maybe I’ll see you on <a title="Anne Marie Becker Twitter" href="https://twitter.com/annemariebecker" target="_blank">Twitter</a> (<span style="color: #800000;"><strong>#1k1hr</strong></span>, anyone?) or <a title="Anne Marie Becker, Author - Facebook" href="https://www.facebook.com/AnneMarieBeckerAuthor" target="_blank">Facebook</a>, where I’ll be posting my progress regularly. Please feel free to share your progress, too. I’m motivated by others’ success, and I understand the tough days, too. I think I’ll invent hashtag <span style="color: #800000;"><strong>#RubyPush</strong></span> for this purpose. <img src='http://www.rubyslipperedsisterhood.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </li>
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<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>Okay, it’s your turn. Don’t be shy. Now’s the time to make your goals a reality. It’ll be 2013 before we know it.</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p><strong>Post your goals below – make them SMART. Word count, page count, or whatever measurement works for you. What’s your plan? What are you willing to do to make these goals a reality?</strong></p>
<p><em><strong>And b</strong></em><strong><em>ecause I believe rewards are important, I’ll be giving away a couple small incentives when we check in six weeks from now, on <span style="color: #800000;">FRIDAY, NOVEMBER 2nd</span>. Non-rubies who post their goal(s) in the comments TODAY and who meet their goals by 11/02/12, AND let me know by commenting on the Ruby blog on 11/02, will be eligible to win one of</em><em><span style="color: #800000;"> two $10 Amazon gift cards</span></em><em> I’ll be giving away that day). I expect you to set goals that are going to challenge you. And yes, we&#8217;re using the honor system, because my faith in the goodness of humanity is still strong&#8230; Happy writing!</em></strong></p>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Jul 2012 04:01:28 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Anne Marie Becker</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Curves Ahead! &#160; We read, and write, because we enjoy it. And, whether I’m reading or writing, there’s nothing I enjoy more than a good twist. Maybe it’s the suspense writer in me, or maybe I’ve read so many books and seen so many television shows and movies in my life that many plots have [...]]]></description>
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<h1><span style="color: #993300;">Curves Ahead!</span></h1>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>We read, and write, because we enjoy it. And, whether I’m reading or writing, there’s nothing I enjoy more than a good twist. Maybe it’s the suspense writer in me, or maybe I’ve read so many books and seen so many television shows and movies in my life that many plots have become predictable. It’s easy for me to guess the endings. So when a writer hits me with an amazing twist…yeah, I get goosebumps.</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>As a suspense author, I try to provide that same kind of “I didn’t see it coming” sucker-punch in my books. The twist in the book that releases today (<em>Avenging Angel</em>) actually crept up on me and I surprised myself. I didn’t realize who the villain was until 2/3 of the way through the first draft. And boy, a major light bulb – the wattage of which could have lit a Las Vegas marquee – went off when it hit me.</p>
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<p>I love those <em>aha!</em> moments. Those shouts of “<em>Eureka!”</em> that make all the torture worthwhile. I swear, there’s a burst of adrenaline or endorphins that accompany the sudden connections in the brain, the synapse firings that pair ideas in a unique way that pays off big as it creates a new idea, a new concept, or twists your old ideas in a new way.</p>
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<p><strong><a href="http://www.rubyslipperedsisterhood.com/ruby-release-avenging-angel/avengingangelcover-2/" rel="attachment wp-att-18180"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-18180" style="margin: 10px;" title="AvengingAngelCOVER" src="http://www.rubyslipperedsisterhood.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/AvengingAngelCOVER1-189x300.jpg" alt="" width="189" height="300" /></a>Today, I’m celebrating the release of <a title="Avenging Angel Amazon buy link" href="http://www.amazon.com/Avenging-Angel-The-Mindhunters-ebook/dp/B00814M2WG/ref=sr_1_2?s=digital-text&amp;ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1342653998&amp;sr=1-2&amp;keywords=avenging+angel" target="_blank">AVENGING ANGEL</a> – Book Two in my Mindhunters series – by giving away an e-copy to one commenter. (And you may be pleased to note that <a title="Only Fear Amazon buy link" href="http://www.amazon.com/Only-Fear-The-Mindhunters-ebook/dp/B005GFAYXC/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1342653931&amp;sr=8-1&amp;keywords=only+fear" target="_blank">ONLY FEAR</a>, the first book in the Mindhunters series, is on sale through 7/31/12 for 99 cents! Print copies of ONLY FEAR are also available through <a title="Only Fear print link" href="http://www.harlequin.com/storeitem.html?iid=25915" target="_blank">www.Harlequin.com</a>.)</strong></p>
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<p>In keeping with the twists and turns this story took as I revised it, below is a &#8220;twisted&#8221; excerpt where my heroine and hero first meet&#8230;and she misunderstands why he&#8217;s there. He goes with it because he&#8217;s looking to get on her good side.</p>
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<p><strong><span style="color: #333399;">A knock at the studio’s front door jerked Vanessa out of the creative fog she’d happily sunk into. From her perch in the back corner, the canvas shielded the door from view.</span></strong></p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #333399;">Maybe Fiona had left something behind. But she would eventually dig out her key and let herself in. Despite the work she had yet to do for the auction, Vanessa had finally had a breakthrough on the piece she’d been trying to start for weeks. She just needed a little more time to get the color just right.</span></strong></p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #333399;">A harder, louder knock brought on a flutter of nerves. She debated whether she could simply play possum, but the studio lights were clearly evident from the street. She forced herself to leave her stool and move to the door.</span></strong></p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #333399;">“Miss Knight?” a male voice called through the door. “Someone at the gallery told me I could find you here.”</span></strong></p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #333399;">Not a complete stranger, then. At least he knew who she was. And he seemed polite. Killers weren’t polite, were they? Still, she was hesitant to unlock the door. “Just a minute.” She ran to the back, grabbed her phone and texted Fiona. <em>Did Lance send a guy over?</em></span></strong></p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #333399;">It only took a minute for Fiona’s reply. <em>No, I did. You’re welcome.</em></span></strong></p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #333399;">More curious than scared now, she unlocked the door. Vanessa’s breath caught at the sight of the owner of the male voice—and the decidedly male body it belonged to.</span></strong></p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #333399;">“I thought maybe you’d snuck out the back.” In an endearing boyish manner, the man tucked his fingers into the front pockets of his jeans and rocked back on his heels, a half grin on his face. Though his dark blond hair was short and well-groomed, a shock of it fell across his forehead.</span></strong></p>
<div><strong><span style="color: #333399;">But it was his eyes that drew her. As an artist, Vanessa had always found eyes so expressive. The window to the soul, some people said. The light blue ones focused on her now held a certain uncommon crystalline intensity. The shade of sky she’d been working on in her painting a moment ago</span><span style="color: #333399;"> sudden</span><span style="color: #333399;">ly</span><span style="color: #333399;"> seemed drab and gray. This man’s eyes…now <em>there</em> was a blue sky. The edges crinkled. “Are you okay? Fiona said it would be okay to come over…”</span></strong></div>
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<p><strong><span style="color: #333399;">“Yes, of course.” She’d been staring. “I’d forgotten I’d placed that ad. It’s been weeks and nobody responded. Please, come in.”</span></strong></p>
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<p><strong><span style="color: #333399;">She closed the door behind him. He came to a stop in the middle of the studio and she eyed the specimen. He had definite potential. She walked in a slow circle around him, her eyes taking in the hint of a chiseled chest beneath his gray T-shirt, the lines of a fine gluteus beneath his faded but nice-fitting jeans. His biceps rippled and forearms contracted as he crossed his arms.</span></strong></p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #333399;">“Like what you see?” Amusement laced his husky words. Still, he let her finish her circuit.</span></strong></p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #333399;">“I have to make sure you’ll be a good fit.” The double meaning of her words came rushing at her and she nearly tripped.</span></strong></p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #333399;">His eyebrows lifted. “For?”</span></strong></p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #333399;">“The position, of course.” She cocked her head, her hair brushing a bare shoulder and making her skin turn to gooseflesh as if he’d touched her. She tugged off her paint-smeared apron. “You’re here about the ad I placed for a nude model, aren’t you?”</span></strong></p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #333399;">His nostrils flared, and Vanessa was reminded of the magnificent, proud stallions from the days in her youth when her mother had pushed her into riding lessons. The pleasant smell of hay and warm, fresh-cut grass suddenly came to her, along with a remembered sense of freedom.</span></strong></p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #333399;">She cleared her throat and stepped away. “You’re just in time. I’d given up on getting a response before my class focuses on anatomical sketches next week.”</span></strong></p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #333399;">“Anatomical sketches?”</span></strong></p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #333399;">“Would you mind taking your shirt off?”</span></strong></p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #333399;">The smile that took a slow trip across his lips had her heartbeat stuttering. “Part of checking out the merchandise? I assure you everything’s there.”</span></strong></p>
<h1><span style="color: #993300;"><em>Thank you for being here with me today! If you’re okay with giving some spoilers, what twists and turns have surprised you in your own writing, or in the books you’ve read recently? (And if it’s a spoiler for a book others may be reading, please indicate that in the beginning.) And remember, I&#8217;ll be giving away a copy of AVENGING ANGEL to a commenter (at random) at the end of the day.</em></span></h1>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 16 Jun 2012 04:34:20 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Anne Marie Becker</dc:creator>
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		<title>Meet 2012 Golden Heart Finalist Alison Delaine</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 11 Jun 2012 04:01:45 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Anne Marie Becker</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[It is my great pleasure to introduce Alison Delaine, Golden Heart® finalist in Historical Romance for her novel NOTORIOUS. Sometime this fall it will be 20 years since Alison brought home that first ream of typing paper and sat down to write a romance. It’s been a long journey—hills of commitment followed by valleys of [...]]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h2><span style="color: #800000;"><strong>It is my great pleasure to introduce Alison Delaine, Golden Heart® finalist in Historical Romance for her novel NOTORIOUS.</strong></span></h2>
<h2><span style="color: #800000;"><strong>Sometime this fall it will be 20 years since Alison brought home that first ream of typing paper and sat down to write a romance. It’s been a long journey—hills of commitment followed by valleys of inaction—but giving up has never been an option. Alison is a teacher-turned-attorney and a two-time Golden Heart finalist who knows a few things about perseverance and hanging on to the dream. You can find out more about Alison at <a href="http://www.AlisonDelaine.com"><span style="color: #800000;">www.AlisonDelaine.com</span></a>.</strong></span></h2>
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<h1><strong>Three Ways to Take Your Power Back—Now!</strong></h1>
<p><strong> </strong>As a writer, I think I’ve counted about a hundred ways I’ve given my power away over the years. (Well, maybe that’s an exaggeration. It’s really more like 95 ways.) When I say I’ve “given my power away,” I am using that phrase in its full, airy-fairy, therapist’s-couch meaning: placing responsibility for my feelings (or more accurately, my writing) on someone or something else.</p>
<p>Here’s a sampling of people to whom I have served my power on a silver platter:</p>
<ul>
<li>The industry insider whose help I thought I could never make it without.</li>
<li>The freelance editor whose feedback I decided I needed to have before I could work on anything new—even though there were many weeks between each draft.</li>
<li>The agent who requested my material and whose response I awaited for months without working on my next project.</li>
<li>The editor whose comment about my pacing left me doubting my entire ability to craft a novel instead of educating myself about pacing.</li>
<li>The first agent I worked with, who I assumed would do everything for me so I took no steps of my own toward publication.</li>
</ul>
<p>One common denominator marks all of these episodes: I stopped doing what I could do and instead put my hope in what someone else might be able to do for me. Ever been there? Published or unpublished, I’m betting most of us have. In fact, I bet you can think of someone right now who has your hopes pinned all over them. Is it an agent? An editor? Readers? Publicist?</p>
<p>Now, sometimes we do need other people. Books don’t publish themselves. (Disclaimer: This post is not about self-publishing.) Many publishing houses don’t accept unagented manuscripts. A busy author may not have time to keep up with promotions, correspondence, and social media. But if you catch yourself feeling helpless, as if everything is out of your control, ask yourself: “Am I giving my power away? To whom?”</p>
<p>It might not even be a person. A few non-human recipients of my power have included</p>
<ul>
<li>The day job that left me resentful and angry because it took time away from my writing.</li>
<li>The beliefs that made me absolutely sure I could only write at certain times of day and under certain conditions.</li>
<li>The market, that summer at National when I was sure I could never get published if I didn’t write about shapeshifters.</li>
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<p>If any of this sounds familiar, it’s time to take your power back. Here are three ways to do it:</p>
<p>1)   <strong>Write</strong>. I’ve noticed a pattern: When I write, I feel powerful. When I write, I feel like I am moving forward. When I write, I feel like my destiny is in my hands. The act of writing improves your craft, gets the ideas flowing, and gives you some mud to fling against the wall. You have control over when, if, and how much you write. No agent, editor, or one-star critic on earth can stop you.</p>
<p>2)   <strong>Ask the Tough Questions</strong>. Are there things you could be doing to be a better writer that you’re not doing? Yes, there are. What are they? Ask the hard questions: “If I’m totally honest, what part of my craft do I know I need to work on?” Work on that thing. “If I’m totally honest, what do I know this story needs but I haven’t wanted to tackle?” Tackle it and change the story. I’ve found that being honest with myself about areas for improvement and taking responsibility for becoming a better writer helps me feel like I’m back in the driver’s seat.</p>
<p>3)   <strong>Take an Action—Any Action</strong>. As a writer, there is always something to do. Make a list of agents to query. Actually send the queries. Enter a contest. Study a book about craft. Put a new technique into practice. Jot down a new story idea. Set a goal for this week, this month, this year—or even just for today. Make a small change to your writing schedule. Try a new motivational technique and see if it works. Committing to an action and following through always gives me a sense of forward momentum—probably because when I take action, I <em>am</em> moving forward.</p>
<h2><strong><em>What about you? Have you ever given your power away as a writer, and if so, what steps made you feel back in control? Any big epiphanies?</em></strong></h2>
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